Sagittarius Best and Worst Relationship Matches


Sagittarius

When the ruler of a particular sign is a big, imposing planet, as is the case with Sagittarius, it is obvious that they are positioned for big things. Since Jupiter, the largest of all the planets, is the planetary ruler of Sagittarius the most conspicuous quality that they will possess is “bigness”. It may sound silly but it truth this characteristic can be profoundly manifested in lots of aspects of your Sagittarian lover. Big Hearts, Big Heads, Big Games, Big Contradictions, these are all parts of the expansive nature of all the Sagittarians in our life. They dream in Technicolor and play on super sized jungle gym, and though they are sometimes unaware of the respect and loyalty that they command, we all know it and we can see it throughout our relationships with them.

You know why you feel for that Sagittarian in the first place. His/her head was being split open with new ideas and the size of their heart opened up wide and welcomed you into their world. There were no reservations about letting you in, and for the first time in a long time you felt like you belonged. There were no plastic coverings over the couches, so to speak, and nothing was hidden. That is one of the gifts of your Sagittarian lover, they are not secretive nor are they possessive. But they are extreme, so make sure that you take that into account when trying to handle them.

Sagittarius’ life lies between two primary bed rocks: Athleticism and intellectualism. The first means that rock climbing, going for hikes and generally engaging the more physical aspects of life may be the driving force behind your Sagittarius’ vision of the world, the second means that that long talks over wine, about philosophy and religion direct the interest of this more cerebral Sagittarius.

***Note: if you have a Sagittarius in your life it may be important to note which of the bed rocks your friend/lover stands more securely on. If they are of the intellectual persuasion their logical (Jupiter) nature will make them a formidable foe to argue against. Their arguments are usually well informed and beautifully constructed. Let them talk and if you disagree, wait till you see holes in their argument since a logical flaw will be most likely to induce reevaluation of their point of view. With the sportsman out there, just avoid physical competition. If they lose whatever game is being played they will hate it because they are perhaps a bit too competitive. They are usually the dirtiest, and most beat up at the end of whatever they are doing. Encourage, as their friend/lover, less result oriented physical endeavors.

Sagittarians are insecure and can be frustrated easily with details, social conventions and the general niceties of day-to-day existence. This means that your lover may tend to hide behind a penchant for debate, concealing their fears and lack of grace behind a fa ade of verbal warfare. This can be tempered by good life experience that teaches them to be proud of who they are, or the natural loudness and intensity of personality can ostracize them from more conventional social scenes.

Long lasting relationships can be difficult because it is hard for them to settle down and stay interested. Your Sagittarian lover may not return phone calls and often breaks dates. His/her impetuosity often leads to a inability to satisfy the more domestic needs of other people, and despite lots of opportunity for physical intimacy, relationships of a more permanent variety may have to wait until middle age, when the “great mellowing” occurs.

Best Relationship Matches

Gemini Since both of you are prone to “sample” partners in life the intensity may initially be there but it may not last.

Aries and Leo Both of these fire signs are compatible with you because of their innate understanding of your passions and interests.

Worst Relationship Matches

Taurus Too possessive, and who would want to limit your freedom

Cancer Too rooted in family stability for your tastes

Virgo Too critical of you, and your pride will not stand for that

Scorpio Although physically compatible, there is too much distrust and competition for dominance on both sides

Capricorn Too pessimistic for you


47 Responses to “Sagittarius Best and Worst Relationship Matches”

  1. so much negativety .. damn, sagiterusses are impulsive and impatient…. the is their main flaw in life. They are so energetic and so happy that they run with thier ideas we know this, November 25th, I was born on the first decan, wich by astrology grants me double of jupiters power and influence. :) wich is why I am more intellectual with philosophy and understanding. I dont argue much, at all. However I will fight for what i believe in, and I am very loyal. My mother is a virgo, and an extreme virgo at that, but I have, so far bridged are gap. I am selfless… I give with out asking why, but I will not be used, been there done that, especially by cancer ((though more like a capricorn))… that is interesting lol, I have also been with another sageterius, she was lazy, and only cared about .. philosphy …. hello do something with your life :) anyways, what I am saying, there is good and bad in all signs, it is being able to weed out the good ones, or the ones that are most compatible with you. IF you want to be my partner, you have to be as strong and as caring as I am with you, AND I CARE WITHOUT ANY REASON !!!

  2. Well, i’m sagg who dates cap girl. We love each other in both ways. but there’s always a conflict ahead..it didn’t last long and we end it. btw, sag are not always restless. i was fully committed to her z whole time. any suggestions on Aquarius or Gemini ones. didn’t see aqua listed on our sagg’s list.

    • They said restless means we r hard working… n take up every work with full enthusiasm

  3. I’m a pisces girl (15) towards an Aries cusp with an Aries Venus (and a lot of Aries) and I’ve had this really adorable sagittarius friend (17) Oh my dear god, he’s gorgeous. I have been lucky to discover that him being my longtime crush, likes me too! Well of course, he chased me, but now I’m chasing him an he’s backing off…how do I stop chasing and keep him interested? I’m in love with him and I won’t settle for anyone else in the world.

    • Ignore him.

      • Having lived nearly 40 years thus far through this incarnation as a very elusive Sagittarius man, I have to second the “ignore him” sentiment. No partners kept my attention aside from the ones who were wise enough to make me pine for them (in one case for over a year). Easy, non-committal, pickings are the default go-to. But a woman that gives me enough to know (without a doubt) that they’re interested without immediately giving up their company have always resulted in my longest relationships. So to paraphrase what Lauren said, be coy with him/her.

        Number one tactical error people make with Sagittarians is to surrender to easily/early. We’re the Hunter, without the chase we lose interest/move on to a new hunt. Once one of us is wrangled in successfully, we’re the most loyal and complicated option in the zodiac. And I make that statement not as a sag myself (which I am), but as someone who is experienced in dating Sags as well.

        It can take over a year of active “flirting” before a Sag either recognizes that it’s flirting or, if he or she realizes right off that it’s flirting, before he or she (the sag) let’s themselves try a commitment.

        Tough times for poor ol’ anti-tradition, commitment-o-phobic, Sags if they don’t seal up their romance early on.

  4. AQUARIUS!!!!!!!!!! ARE TOO PERFECT FOR SAGS YO FOREAL!
    LIKE DEY JUSS CLICK ONCE DEY MEET DEY MEANT TOO BE TOGTHER

  5. hey aquariusboy im a nov23 sag dating an aquarian.. well dear its tricky she can hold a grudge for a loong time our inteligence allows that. but focus on your combined strenghts in understanding the need for space and intelect. it gets tough but dont le her rule you too much. how does a romantic suprise sound? i be you will blow her away when you learn to be more creative ( aquarians can be a bit conformed) but dud eif it does not improve move on.. chances are she allready started looking elsewhere then and your just the comfort zone.. sagians are very good at this we are charmers! yet we can love tremendously deep.. dunno try the romance or move on dude

  6. I meant Libra.

  7. Sagittarius should be in best matches too!

  8. yeah im into a scorp but it mostly sex and competition so yeah i can dig it the sex is great though there are freaks and are definately open for anything when the trust is there

  9. Currently studying astrology in the celebrity area. Brad Pitt is a Sagittarius and left Jennifer Aniston (An Aquarius) for Angelina a Gemini (His perfect match) was hoping to find more on the Sagittarius/ Aquarius bond but nothing is mentioned here about Aquarius. I remember on MTV they always talked about the pair. They sounded so BORED together.

  10. This doesn’t say anything about A Sag with an Aquarius…. I’m dating Sag man<3 (Aquarius Woman)

  11. im a sagittarius and its fun to think about, but to say that you will never date a sagittarius again or saying they are the best, or judging every man by an astrology reading isn’t a bright thing to do. there are simply good men and bad men and imo i don’t think its based off of a reading of what someone said a long time ago. all men have certain qualities that make us who we are and same for women. you could be looking at your perfect soul mate but bc he is a certain sign you pass him up and now you are foolish because you put all of your faith in what sign he is just bc some other bum hurt you.

  12. Im a sag and i believe most of what was said about sag and their compatibility is so true. I was recently dating a virgo but i knew it would never worked and she tried to convince me that it would but now we are just friends.

  13. OMG SOOO TRUE!!
    and why is it that I always end up with Capricorn??? that’s what I’ve attracted in all my previous relationships…. im in my mid 30s now – enough playing around – I need a libra, Aries or Leo

  14. im dating a Romanian sag man, 37 bodybuilder. ima sag too. they say a sag cant be with another sag. i dont buy it but it seems like its true bec oftentimes he sends mix messages, sweet then when we talk about our past , he becomes accussive and doubtful.i think i cant be with a sag forever..

  15. this is what exactly happened to me. Capricorn, ah hated them. Too much pessimist for me too much. My each and every word was negative and wrong for her. I don’t believe this, the whole world appreciates me and think i am good enough whereas she thinks i am a negative and egoistic person. Fuck man..!! I left her

  16. I disagree with some things i read above, some of it I guess isn’t true anyway,
    I am a sagitarian woman,I am very secure with my self and an independent person..despite that I like to wear skirt and make up with my stiletto, I love to handle gun or happy with my martial art course.
    I am a giver but I am greedy when comes about my privacy..
    I like to wear jeans and laugh out loud and in the same time I can stay still and sit quietly to read.
    I can be very moody, lazy if I don’t find the thing interest me, or just plain ignorant and too private..get frustrated easily in some point, and can be extremely bore easily.
    I rarely jealous, I don’t sweat small stuff and it’s not easy to handle me cuz i am 100% a stubborn woman.
    I am married to my Libra man (in here it didnt say anything about libra as my partner),my bond with him is amazing he truly loves me,he is the best from anyone i ever been with, it’s great how he can put up with me …he is giving all his best to put us together, he making me love him more everyday.
    I used to be a big flirty,just since I got married I don’t do that stuff anymore,and yes I want to settle down and I am settled with my Libran man.

  17. wat abt sagittarius man n pisces girl??? m myslf a piscean n hav huge crush on sag. frnd n cllg senior!

  18. I have to say this doesn’t really explain my Sagittarius woman at all. She’s small, sweet, shy, easily frightened and very clingy, there is a bit of a prowling panther in there, but like most wild cats, isn’t very social. -Not that I mind.- I love some of these articles, but I think all sides should be explained.

  19. I’m married to a scorpio man who at first we were great as friends we became lovers and things just gt crazy. My husband has anger issues he strikes me when he’s really mad his excuse is well u know how mad u get me. If I’m tired and I fall asleep he will wake up the next morning like a devil and he’s even hit me because I did not have sex with him. He claims I’m always pushing him away when in reality yes I might push him awayc cause I hold a grudge against all the hitting he did. He was so mad one day he through a bracelet at me and gave me a gash in the back of my ear. He claimed he did not mean to throw at me… ladies believe me this is not worth it. I’m waiting to save money so I can leave his ass. I hate him and he can go back to jailfor all I care. Fyi he has 3 felonies oh and I’m the one who works he does not he can’t get a job cuase his ass is a jailberg! What a dum mistake I made. As a sagittarius I’m sick and tired I pay the rent the phone food he had little side jobs that are not enough mind u he aid he wants to work but gets discouraged because he has been turned own due to his felonies. I love but hate him and I eriously believe there’s someone else out there for me

    • miss, if you ever read this; I hope you already left him or you need to leave that bitch right now. use some hot grits like madea yo, you make oatmeal, be like hey babeeeee, breakfast and throw the whole liquidy ass grits on him burning that bitch and then using another pan to smack his ass while youre tryna run the shit outta there. THAnk the lord. MADEA MOVIES ARE The besssssssssssst. Then after you just be like fuck that bitch, forgive him and forgive you cos the truth is you always wanted good things but that gives his sick ass son of a bitch ass no right to treat another person wrong and then you just forgive and BUH BYEEEEEEE And go on looking hunnnnaaaaay for your true trueeeeee love, and happiness and desire and dont settle and be kind and all the other good beautiful things you issssss. much love

  20. Bitches and Hoes… I’m mad in love with a Sagittarius and I’m a Capricorn. He’s so random, intellectual, witty and asshole-like. I think he’s the most brilliant person I know. He lives so fluidly, without any plans or back up plans and it annoys the flying-fuck outta of me but everything he does I can never give him shit for it….. ‘Cause all he does is that stupid smirk on his face and gets away with murder. The only reason I never dated him is because he lives too far from me :( Phone sex does wonders…. I don’t think I can EVER delete him out of my life even when I’m in a relationship other people…. There’s no one I can like as much as this Sagittarius… but, long distance relationships is a big hell NO to me.

  21. This is dumb. I have been dating a Cancer for basically 4 years. We have broken up once or twice but we always return to each other. We are well… perfect for each other. We are yin and yang and it just works so well for us. ANY relationship can work if you try. Also, I have read up on Cancer and Sagg and it always says if the two are willing they could have a relationship full of balance and love since they are so opposite. :)

  22. haha.. my virgo is pretty critical too but honestly it doesnt bother me too much.. like it does but not enough for me to break it off we go really well with each other.. we just get along so well somehow shes just so different than anyone ive ever met sooo.. idk lol

  23. Sag’s beware. Libra’s are compatible with almost everyone for a reason, deep down they want to be with everyone. I have had the folly of dating five presumably different Libra’s (all from different backgrounds) and literally every one of them turned out to be lazy, deceitful cheaters. Libra’s may be pretty, but they are not passionate and typically have a love of giving what was supposed to be yours to new people, especially those they barely know. And sadly, they do it and feel not only okay about it, but justified; as if cheating and lying were things they are supposed to do. Just a warning. Maybe not all Libra’s are this way, but with the diplomatic tenancy to lie to anyone, you have no real way to tell sense a libra will say anything to get off the hot seat.

  24. Hi I am a 26 year old Gemini that have been in a 6 year relationship with a 36 year old Leo. The problem I’m having is that I’m not quite show I love him anymore. On the other hand I am intrigued by a Sag. that is showing interest in me. I don’t want to lose what I have and regret it later. But I don’t want to miss the opportunity I may have with the Sag. Confused, can someone give me advice?

  25. I don’t know. I kinda like all men. There isn’t one in particular that I would say is my “best match”, each one has something the other doesn’t, and each one has something I don’t. So, I kinda love them all.

  26. I am in love with a Sag and currently we are playing the cat mouse game! I am an Aries and I am a go getter! Once you have my attention, I work my magic until I get what I want. As a Sag, he likes to be the chaser! When we first met he was calling me all the time…. the more I did not answer the more he called. When I started calling and emailing him – he bagged off. I see how this works now! And I love a challenge! But once I get him will he keep me interested is the key???? HMMMMM

    • OMG! How’d you stop chasing, I’m still trying to figure it out!

  27. lol, Idk about the “best matches” I’ve dated every zodiac sign and still havn’t had a good relationship with either of them. So i’m just single and planning a fun life for my future. lol. I’m a Sag/ 17/ and live in Texas, but of course I won’t want to be bothered that much, lol. i’ll probably be camping anyway.

  28. I am currently seeing a Sag man, and I have never felt so much passion and desire as I do when I am with him. He is incredible in bed, the best lover I have ever had by far! Explosive!!! He makes me feel SO alive and like a woman should feel. Totally unselfish too which is a rare quality in a sometimes selfish man. We started seeing each other around about this sort of time last year, it has ended on 2 occasions as I was a bit of a naughty girl with other men and he found out but he was with someone at the time and I just felt like it would never go anywhere with him so what was the point in being faithful? I may aswell see what else there was out there ! Sorry but life is too short for regrets. Anyway, he came back just before Xmas saying despite everything I had done, he still loved me so we gave it another go, but I had since moved to a different town so it was difficult for us to see each other, so I ended it this time. Anyway, he is back AGAIN for more, this time has left the girl he was with and is moving into a new flat today actually! So we shall see what happens this time around! Trust me though, you have to keep them on their toes in order for them to stay interested. He is 36 and I am a 35 Gemini woman. Who knows where it will go, but I am sure will have loads of fun finding out!!!!

  29. Help!!! My wife is a november 23rd Sag. and need I say more about that. She told me the other night that she was NOT sexually attractive to me, but physically attractive. I think she is still holding a grudge from four years ago when I went through a tired spelled and didn’t want to be bothered for about a week. Since that she has not made an attempt I always have to initiate. Can anybody offer some sexual advice OR should I start looking somewhere else? I am an Aquarius and I need it just about every other day.

  30. “I was in love with a Sagittarius…” like Beyonce said on B-Day. But I’m a Gemini woman and he hurt me so bad. I was open and honest with him about everything and he lied from day one. He told me he wouldn’t lie because he valued honesty and cherished beauty (referring to me), but he still lied and hurt me anyway. He got caught and felt bad about it but I don’t forgive easily. I had never dated a Sag before and never will again. The sex was GREAT but I’m not desperate. He asked if we could continue sex but after the lies and pain of heartbreak, I said, “Na…I’ll pass”. I know there is a Libra out there waiting for me to knock his socks off…I’ll save it for him instead!

    • I can understand the broken heart my dear. But remember, not all Sagittarius are the same. It also depends on the moon sign. Sometimes people lean more towards their moon sign. Just a suggestion. I hope you find the one for you weather your signs match or not.

  31. I am a gemini and have been with my sagittarian man for a long long time. We do not have to work very hard at our relationship. So it is cool how it says that we are good for each other. On the other hand….on the Gemini love matches it has Aquarius and Libra listed as my best matches. I happen to be completely intrigued with an Aquarius male at the moment and have been for the passed few years.

  32. I have a question, when with a Libra, how do sagittarius’ match up.I amcurrently ina a relationship with one and am curious as to how we’ll fair

  33. btw, im a sagittarius

  34. ..i have a boyfriend who is a taurus and it says up there that i cant get along with one =/ me and my taurus get along just FINE. sure.. he is a bit possessive, but i don’t mind that.

  35. i love my sag, but unfortunatly, he hasnt had his great mellowing period yet so, out relationship just consists of great sex, but no real commitments…he;s not ma man, we just “own” each other (as he says) now i know why…hes just a pussy wen it comes to commitments…thanx for clearing dat up 4 me

  36. HEY iF UR A SAG MAN N WANNA TALK…IM ME @ vfaith5
    i’m FAITH…im 17/i’m a Libra…=]
    good idea right??/??//?

  37. I LOVE IT. IT JUST CAME TO ME. LIBRA GOES WELL WITH EVERYBODY!
    haha. Jim Morrison is the sexiest Sagittarius!

    • Libras proboably do because they’re so gullible and u can do anything to them and they will take u back.

  38. i never dated a sag nor was i ever attracted to any of them

  39. would other signs not listed in either of the two lists above be compatible with this sign as well?

  40. Uhh, so true. I was with a Scorpio and that’s exactly why we worked for a little while, but didn’t work in the long run. Also exactly what’s wrong with most of them Capricorns, too! Okay that’s not what’s “wrong” with them per say, but why WE aren’t compatible. ;)

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