Sagittarius Best and Worst Relationship Matches
When the ruler of a particular sign is a big, imposing planet, as is the case with Sagittarius, it is obvious that they are positioned for big things. Since Jupiter, the largest of all the planets, is the planetary ruler of Sagittarius the most conspicuous quality that they will possess is “bigness”. It may sound silly but it truth this characteristic can be profoundly manifested in lots of aspects of your Sagittarian lover. Big Hearts, Big Heads, Big Games, Big Contradictions, these are all parts of the expansive nature of all the Sagittarians in our life. They dream in Technicolor and play on super sized jungle gym, and though they are sometimes unaware of the respect and loyalty that they command, we all know it and we can see it throughout our relationships with them.
You know why you feel for that Sagittarian in the first place. His/her head was being split open with new ideas and the size of their heart opened up wide and welcomed you into their world. There were no reservations about letting you in, and for the first time in a long time you felt like you belonged. There were no plastic coverings over the couches, so to speak, and nothing was hidden. That is one of the gifts of your Sagittarian lover, they are not secretive nor are they possessive. But they are extreme, so make sure that you take that into account when trying to handle them.
Sagittarius’ life lies between two primary bed rocks: Athleticism and intellectualism. The first means that rock climbing, going for hikes and generally engaging the more physical aspects of life may be the driving force behind your Sagittarius’ vision of the world, the second means that that long talks over wine, about philosophy and religion direct the interest of this more cerebral Sagittarius.
***Note: if you have a Sagittarius in your life it may be important to note which of the bed rocks your friend/lover stands more securely on. If they are of the intellectual persuasion their logical (Jupiter) nature will make them a formidable foe to argue against. Their arguments are usually well informed and beautifully constructed. Let them talk and if you disagree, wait till you see holes in their argument since a logical flaw will be most likely to induce reevaluation of their point of view. With the sportsman out there, just avoid physical competition. If they lose whatever game is being played they will hate it because they are perhaps a bit too competitive. They are usually the dirtiest, and most beat up at the end of whatever they are doing. Encourage, as their friend/lover, less result oriented physical endeavors.
Sagittarians are insecure and can be frustrated easily with details, social conventions and the general niceties of day-to-day existence. This means that your lover may tend to hide behind a penchant for debate, concealing their fears and lack of grace behind a fa ade of verbal warfare. This can be tempered by good life experience that teaches them to be proud of who they are, or the natural loudness and intensity of personality can ostracize them from more conventional social scenes.
Long lasting relationships can be difficult because it is hard for them to settle down and stay interested. Your Sagittarian lover may not return phone calls and often breaks dates. His/her impetuosity often leads to a inability to satisfy the more domestic needs of other people, and despite lots of opportunity for physical intimacy, relationships of a more permanent variety may have to wait until middle age, when the “great mellowing” occurs.
Best Relationship Matches
Gemini Since both of you are prone to “sample” partners in life the intensity may initially be there but it may not last.
Aries and Leo Both of these fire signs are compatible with you because of their innate understanding of your passions and interests.
Worst Relationship Matches
Taurus Too possessive, and who would want to limit your freedom
Cancer Too rooted in family stability for your tastes
Virgo Too critical of you, and your pride will not stand for that
Scorpio Although physically compatible, there is too much distrust and competition for dominance on both sides
Capricorn Too pessimistic for you