Rules Of Flirting


All women are sure that they know how to flirt. But why some women attract crowds of men, and others, quite pretty and charming, are still missing their men? The matter is that flirt also has its own rules, based on non-romantic laws of psychology. Without knowing them, you may be searching for your “dream mate” till old age.

Let’s suppose you saw your dream man at a party or in a club. What will each 5th woman do in such situation? She will come to him and start a conversation! What each 10th woman will talk about with him? About culture, art and books she read. And what will each 3rd do? Run away from her quickly! Not because she is ugly or uninteresting. A strange man is just first attracted by sexuality, nit intellect. So, you caught HIS look. Don’t be in a hurry to avert your eyes. Look straightly at him for several seconds more, than it is accepted, then close your eyes slightly, take a breath and look aside. As soon as you see that he averted his eyes with your off-center vision, look at him again… A man treats such trick as a straight hint that a woman wants to become acquainted with him, but is shy to do it herself, so she is stealing a look.

It is better to look over your shoulder, which you should raise slightly upper, than usual. Man associate shoulder (especially if it is naked or covered slightly) with the female breast. Advertisers know this trick well, and you often can see a wonderful strange woman on billboards, looking this way, – this, according to researches, gets men worked up and attracts them. It is well-known, that a naked wrist is also a strong erotic sign. Some psychologists assume, that display of the wrist shows trust to a man, a wish to give in to him. If you are also stroking a stem or neck with your hand, looking like you’re lost in thoughts, then this is also a sexual hint understood to any man.

The pose has an important meaning. If you sit hunched, do not even expect a man will come to you. Crooked back, sorry, – is a sign of a senile sickness, even if a girl is sitting in such a pose. So straighten your back, recline, shaking with your hair and checking your skirt (gestures of doubling up). If you wear trousers, put your thumbs behind a belt or an edge of a pocket – this is a gesture of sexual aggression, although what should a man expect from a woman wearing trousers? If you are wearing skirts, bend your legs or cross them. This will create an impression of tension of hip muscles and says that a woman is ready for intimate adventures. If a man is still standing at a bar after you have done all this trick, – do not waste your time on him, probably, he is too drunk, married or not interested in women at all. So, after you started the conversation, you need to win his favor psychologically.

For this, become … his mirror reflection. How? Very easy – copy his pose and gestures. The essence of this in the fact that you pose should be as close to a man’s purse, as possible. If in the beginning this is difficult for you, you can copy only a slope of his body, head, position of legs, hands. Imitation of gestures does not mean that you should raise your hand, twist your fingers itch simultaneously with a partner. You just should look at gestures, peculiar to a man, and try to “transfer” them on your. If he “chops” a table with his hand, proving some thought, there is sense to do the same thing – this way you will strengthen your mutual understanding.

Another way to win a man’s favor – is to copy a rhythm of his breathing. Shortly speaking, breathe in unison with him. If it is difficult to do, you can imitate the rhythm of his breathing, moving your hand or palm. Once you have done this, say a “dominant” idea, which you would like to tell him about. For example: “They say, I’m sexy” – and breathe out sharply. It is a paradox, but truth – your partner will also breathe out automatically, hold his breath for a while and there will be a feeling that his heart sank. This happens when a person agrees with something he just heard. Everyone will like to verify your words in practice.

What to do further? If you want your partner courting you – invite to a café or present a bunch of roses, and he does not hit upon an idea, you can suggest an idea to him. For example, raise your hand to the level of his eyes (you may hold a cigarette or pen in it) and say: “It is so hot here, I just cannot breathe! And in that café it is so cool and comfortable. We will be able to drink some tea!” – or just ask: “Will we go to a café or restaurant?” This question will create an illusion of choice, but indeed, you will agree with both choices. Or (if you want another date): “Tomorrow in the evening I’m going for a walk. What are you going to do?” It looks like you asked a question, but, in fact, you have already suggested a decision.

A principle of three “yes” works good. A partner should answer positively on your three questions, then he will answer “yea’ on 4th one automatically already. For example: “Don’t you think this evening is terribly dark?” – “Yes”. – “There are no people on streets”. – “Yes”. – “And we are far away from home”. – “Yes”. – “Will you see me home?”

Use all these easy to make ways to ensnare a man and soon you will see that you can choose the one that suits you best of many admirers.


21 Responses to “Rules Of Flirting”

  1. Sagittarius should be in best matches. My mom’s a Sagittarius, my dad’s a Libra and they’re really happy!

  2. Awesome post. Thanks so much.

  3. Uhmmm

  4. I’m dating a Pisces Male, and im a Taurus, By far i can honestly say this is one of the best matches, i love him with all of my heart, and i don’t think i could ever live without him! im am very independent, but i really couldn’t live without him, He is absolutely AMAZING to me, and is all-ways there, he see’s the best in everyone, and everything, and that got him very hurt in the past. If you’ve got a Pisces man, id totally advise you to stay with him, he’s like No other! <3

    x mary

  5. “A strange man is just firstly attracted by sexuality, nit intellect.”

    That’s the problem with this blog right there. You’re assuming the woman wants a man like that. If the brain doesn’t work, I don’t want him flirting with me in the first place. Only way I know that is if I ask questions, discuss topics and get him to answer. And then I know the manner of man he is. Can’t/Won’t flirt with a man if I’m not attracted to his brain/spirit as well as his body. You’re assuming the girl/woman in this scenario is only interested in the body. And that is a wrong assumption to make.

  6. them sh*ts wont work on women.

  7. M a guy i accidentally found this… I think a lot of those tricks work. But I will say that when a woman starts to show signs of “bookish” flirts we can see it easily. We become careful of associating with such a woman because we know shes playing tricks. Natural feminity is very important. Not just for me, ask any guy. Keep it real.

  8. Good stuff. Do you have something similar to guys? I think my wrists are pretty top notch but I don’t know how much women are into them ;p

  9. ooops wrong blog….hehe.

  10. Ok, Hi I’m a libra and I think I would like to jump off a bridge at this point with the pisces I met. I honestly feel my love life will never be the same if I ever decide to move on. I feel like I’m walking on egg shells all the time and omg why are they such contradictory people? They don’t like it when you DON’T give them attention and when you eventually do…they are still not happy!!!! (tear) seriously what do u want from me?????!!!!!! I feel like i’m the crazy one. Don’t get me wrong there is that beautiful side that just makes you want to stay because they don’t mean any harm and I know there is that potential deep down but its like just bring it out already!lol it’s been like 5 years of this on and off thing and I don’t even know what it is really because it feels like we’re living in some dream land. I really feel there is no hope…I feel drained and empty inside. I don’t understand why it has to be so hard to work out. There’s like this thick wall that I wanna break down but i can’t. Help:( maybe it’s just not meant to be but i’mhaving a hard tome to believe that

  11. girls need to learn how to wink;)

  12. lol men are funny:)) These tricks work!

  13. Thanks for the email, keep up the good work on the blog

  14. I’m also a aquaris guy…….i can agree with most of the things…ya its true…

  15. Very interesting and agreeable in my eyes! Excellent content!

  16. well explained.. i get the point..

  17. i doubt baring a shoulder will help u.

  18. lol i don t think so unless you wear a skirt and all.

  19. yes

  20. yeah well thats cool k i really didnt know that so thanks

  21. if im a guy and read this, should i just replace everything as to being a male?

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